Because I apparently have to stop working every 15 minutes to check blogs and social networking, I found myself reading about an ex-sex-worker coming out in an interview about her experiences. The write-up was on Bust.com and the writer opened with her abhorrence at the interviewer’s ignorance, who took the typical talk-show “oh my god, [...]
I forgot to tell you, I wrote a piece awhile ago for Sexis about the history of the gay-leather scene.
“It’s nothing new, but straight men have been slowly getting more in touch with their feminine sides, in ways both emotional and aesthetic. And while that’s not at all a bad thing, I like to think [...]
Just as I was writing my post about the hook-up culture and death of dating as our Grandparents knew it, the feminist blog-sphere was being lit up. In this corner of the Internet the old argument “is the hook-up generation bad for girls?” had been dug up from the bin of tossed around ideas, like [...]
I was in highschool during the turn of the millennium, it was a time when a classic-put down for my age group had suddenly become lost. Slut was a word that sounded powerful, that one might cut up from a magazine to proudly paste onto her decoupaged notebook, a word she might see emblazoned in [...]
Graphic Sexual Horror is a documentary film about the late, hardcore BDSM pornsite, insex.com. I recently had a chance to see this documentary with fellow writer, Arvan of Sex Gender Body, at the Leather Archives as part of the Sex Positive Film Series.
Check out my review & reflections on the film at Sex Gender Body.
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The first time I had anal sex, it was a decision made out of the self-assertion that I was open minded and adventurous in bed. The whole dialogue that influenced this decision was entirely in my mind. When this partner suggested anal, I wanted to do it do it for him—and after a mini frenzy [...]
Dear Rabbit White,
My boyfriend and I have been in a relationship for the past three years and recently moved in together. There is a five year age gap between us (he’s older).
When we first started dating, he had very little sexual experience and it was incredible fun to have sex with someone who didn’t have [...]
There is something in the past of my relationship that I’m not proud about, but I’ll go ahead and say it: I used to feel a tinge of jealousy when Ned would masturbate. It wasn’t full on anger, or even conscious envy, but it was there. Of course I could come up with a million [...]
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I wanted to share this set of videos, because it is one of the most exciting conversations I have come across in awhile. I’ve not seen something so beautiful and thoughtful on the topic of atheism and de-conversion in, well, maybe ever.
While other atheist memes are quick to point a finger, laughing at [...]
There is one very intense, meaningful question that every woman has to find an answer to: Would you keep the baby or not? This question found it’s way into my living room last night as Ned and I sat on the couch after a successful budgeting discussion, we realized we were coming up on our [...]
