Boy meets Girl–or Boy and upon a drink bought and sheets tossed in, something happens. Getting to know one and other goes past the one night stand hump, past the few weeks emergency-stage and into the territory of relationship. Then, it can become a time-bomb ticking away to that one day. In mine and Ned’s [...]
I used to be a compulsive hair-dyer. There is just no feeling quite like impulsively picking out a new shade, waiting as it sets in then coming out of the bathroom or beauty salon looking (and feeling) like a different person. While this past obsession might not have been healthy, consciously deciding to change ones [...]
Photo Cred:Top L: Bruno Dayan Top R Brigitte Sire Bottom 2: Unknown Blowfish podcast on sexual empathy and teaching straight people to”fuck like queers.” The Internal Dialogue A post about recognizing and overcoming self-attack Why you struggle to connect with others & how to overcome these and start connecting. Like me, did you always want [...]
I am so excited to finally unveil to you the new Rabbit Write design! Take a look and wander around the new, glossier site. The About page has been given a massive, meaty make-over and there are a few new pages. Check out the community page, which is chock full of fantastic links to Rabbit [...]
Eating is more of a taboo topic than I let on. I have talked about my history with disordered eating, but because I love food, cooking and eating regular meals without dieting, binging, starving or puking, I don’t really give much thought to the fact that I have (or had) an eating disorder. If you [...]
So, the lazy warm weather has begun to slip away beneath our toes. September is here, the month of zip-up sweatshirts and fresh school supplies. Living in a city like Chicago, winter feels like forever, winter is always the last one to leave at the party, the house-guest that always overstays their visit. There is [...]
I wore this very 1993 outfit the other weekend on a rare hungover morning out to brunch. The phenomenon many refer to as “hungover humor” was operating on high. For those who aren’t familiar, hangover humor is like semi-still-drunk nonsensical, witty silliness. After a night out, I can never tell if it’s the post-drinking icky-ness [...]
When you are part of a couple, there is one inevitable question that is going to arise: How did you two meet? Why is this such a popular inquiry? It is as if the right answer holds the secret to pure love and a happy life. I think that this question actually does hold some [...]
I read yesterday that Amy Winehouse is giving herself and her home a creamy smooth make-over. She’s obsessed by soft peachy pinks and golds and is especially partial to floral prints. This aesthetic will apparently become her new trademark. If this bit of gossip is true it would seem that Amy and I have more [...]
What He Wore: I’ve spent alot of my life trying to avoid wearing shorts. But in the midst of a balmy summer, I can’t help but give in to the cooler fabric and the smack of sticky thighs that comes along with it. Shorts, I think, are supposed to be sexy. Images of California-tanned gleaming [...]