Tag Archives: Self-Awareness

Self-Awareness is being present to your life and making conscious decisions, it is about striving for virtue in your life. It is where becoming the person you were meant to be happens.

Ask Rabbit: Finding a Balance in your Dating Personality

Ask Rabbit Episode 5: Personalities and Dating from Rabbit White on Vimeo.

Answering: “How do I find a balance between being ‘Heart on the Sleeve-Guy’ and ‘The Asshole’ & on the flip-side, finding a balance between being ‘The Party Girl’ & ‘The Relationship Girl’ Also on YouTube! Show Notes– First I’d like to apologize for being so hetero-normative in this video! I think a lot of this [...]

Sparkles and Ex-Friend Etiquette

I’m not quite sure what’s up with this outfit either…but this sparkly number is what I wore recently to a Birthday Party. I went to the party early in the night and it was a pretty small and personal affair. As more guests arrived, I looked up to see some old friends, including someone who [...]

Ask Rabbit: How to not “just be friends” with someone you like

Ask Rabbit Episode 4: Staying Out of the Just Friend Zone from Rabbit White on Vimeo.

Also on YouTube! Show Notes Letting yourself settle into just friend category with someone you like is a mistake that guys stereotypically make, but women do too. The reason that going from friends to more doesn’t work isn’t always because they aren’t interested in you, but because they already have you as “friend” in their [...]

Anniversary Outfit +When Anniversaries go bad!

retouched photo thanks to the talented Oliver Thomas of Scene-There I wore this princess flowy gown recently for mine and Ned’s 6 month wedding anniversary/2 year dating anniversary. Since the 6 month/2 year anniversary collision only happens once, I was bent on celebrating big. I was quick to come up with ideas: we could make [...]

Overdessing in Trousers

I admit it, I tend to over-dress for everything. I’ve been told in jobs that I need to dress more casual. I’ve been to countless parties and get-togethers where the host has a moment of anxiety when I arrive, exclaiming that they should’ve specified casual and relaxed. This can be a bit mortifying…I think it [...]

The Acid Test: Is there anything to gain from taking drugs?

When I was around 9 years old an article appeared in my hometown newspaper that will forever be burnt into my brain. “Children’s Blue Star Temporary Tattoos Contain LSD” I read aloud. The story claimed that the quarter machines in  grocery stores and Walmarts were selling stick-on tattoos doused with the drug LSD. This story [...]

Ask Rabbit Episode 2: Ex’s on Facebook

Ask Rabbit Episode 2: Ex's on Facebook from Rabbit White on Vimeo.

Ask Rabbit Episode 2: Ex’s on Facebook and should you be friends with them Second Video Podcast [Video and Audio at bottom] We’re back with better quality and the same Webster’s dictionary to answer your relationship questions. Be sure to watch to the end for some excellent bonus kitten footage. Remember to send in questions [...]

Do you dress for Venus or Mars?

I wore this outfit on a warm Saturday night out to WestFest, a Chicago neighborhood/music  street festival. As Ned and I walked through the crowd, peeking into vendor  stands and eating perfectly greasy vegetable samosas, he noted that more women had been checking me out than men. This led me to that much debated old [...]

Psychological reasons behind pet ownership

*insight and photos of your pets in comments is greatly encouraged Ned and I recently welcomed an addition to our family, a bouncing baby kitty. A google search of “psychological reasons for pet owning” yields lists of health purposes to get a pet: they are relaxing, provide routine, alleviate loneliness etc. That’s all nice but [...]

The way we talk

As teenagers,  my friends and I had a distinct way of talking. Our daily vocabulary was peppered with specific slang and  certain voice pitches and patterns. In high school it seemed most girl cliques had code-words and inclusive ways of talking. How you talked let people know what group you were with; like a secret [...]