I have to say that I enjoy your blogs, and I find them to be quite enlightening and intriguing. I do, however, have an issue that I want to dispute in this one. From college, I would hope that you’d remember me as someone quite opinionated…with that in mind, I don’t mean any offense. There are many areas that you touched on in your post that I agree with…but in your paragraph, before the celebrity list you state: “As far as bisexuality goes in the relationship, we can check people out together, talk openly about what actors and actresses we find hot, and are possibly more open to new and exciting things in the bedroom than a straight-straight couple.” As far as openness in the bedroom is concerned…I don’t think it is a matter of sexuality or what you prefer, especially if you are monogamous. As long as a third party isn’t involved, it really isn’t an issue of what your sexual preference is, but rather, how open you both are sexually. You can be a heterosexual female, take the reins, being more masculine in your bedroom behaviors…just as a hetero-male can behave in a more feminine way. Conversely, the same can be said for homosexual couples. I guess it really depends on the couple’s sexual compatibility versus the couple’s sexuality. That, and what type of man or woman you are in the bedroom. I have many homosexual, bi-sexual, a-sexual etc. friends and obviously we share little details about each other’s intimate lives. I cannot say that their experiences ,due to their sexual preference, have made them more open in the bedroom. I can say, however, that it all makes for interesting conversation between us all. Basically, what I am trying to get across, is the question…how do you know the extent of certain sexuality’s lifestyle…whether it’s sexual or not…unless you’ve experienced it yourself? You’re bi-sexual, and probably have been since you became a sexual being, you can’t realistically gauge a heterosexual or a homosexual’s experiences(especially in the bedroom) unless you were one or the other. Just as I, a heterosexual woman, cannot gauge yours or anyone else’s sexual experiences. Again, I did not mean this to be offensive or anything along those lines, I enjoy your anecdotes…I just wanted to voice my opinion.

Great post. Some good points that I’d never really thought about. I never know whether to call myself Bi or not. I think I am, I’m attracted to women, but I’m in a long term hetero relationship and I’ve never been with a woman. I guess I’m bi in the same way a straight virgin is still straight.

From the guys I recognise on your list they all seem like nice sensitive types (without knowing anything about them of course, and excluding the murderer perhaps).

O and speculation/potentially only when on drugs bi guy – Gerard Way from My Chemical Romance.