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Music in Relationships

I was sitting across from Eric, an ex. We were getting comfortable between gold pints, starting to loosen. “Y’know, you are the only ex that I’m not friends with.” he said. I looked sideways “really?” We talked about his exes. I realized, he was just a nostalgia junkie. “I know. I am.”  He looked into [...]

Who’s Afraid of Bisexual Men?

I’m sitting on the edge of the bed. The room is dark, filled with the sound of flesh smacking flesh and throaty “ahhhhhs.” Next to me are huddles of middle aged men, standing, pants-off, half-hard. I’m sitting upright, purse in lap feeling a bit overdressed. In front of me is a triple set of couples, [...]

Having Sex when You Don’t Want Sex

image by Conrad Roset My body floated into the bedroom in a cream baby-doll nightie. I  found it hanging on the “nicer items” rack in a thrift store. It was Oscar De la Renta and still had the tags on. After buying it, I stood in front of a mirror, admiring the billowy layers of [...]

Makeup Tutorial Reversed: Why Women Wear Makeup

A make-up tutorial video done in reverse while I attempt to answer the question: why do women wear makeup? Overview: Why do women wear make-up? I wear and enjoy make-up. In one sense, it is a way to express yourself, your mood and your interior life. I love the whole transformation process and I an [...]

Uncircumcised Penis Love & Penis Evolution

I read this theory last night, and woke up a bit puffy eyed and excited to share it with you. Overview A new theory published in Archives of Sexual Behavior shows again that men and women aren’t that different. This theory explains the shape of the human penis and how it evolved to where it [...]

Reflections on Graphic Sexual Horror

Graphic Sexual Horror is a documentary film about the late, hardcore BDSM pornsite, insex.com. I recently had a chance to see this documentary with fellow writer, Arvan of Sex Gender Body, at the Leather Archives as part of the Sex Positive Film Series. Check out my review & reflections on the film at Sex Gender [...]